Marriage and Cohabitation

Should pastors marry those who have been cohabitating?

“Pastors are stewards of a biblical understanding of sexuality. Marrying cohabiters miscommunicates the teaching function of marriage. I would only marry couples that were repentant, had forsaken the sin of cohabitating,
and sought the remedy of marriage. Marriage does not simply validate the long-term commitment of a couple whose relationship has been based upon cohabitation. There’s another problem, which has to do with the fact that
pastors are not the only stewards of marriage. In other words, marriage is accessible to persons outside the church. So when the church allows a marriage to take place within its life, it should be validating this in a way that goes
beyond marriage as a creation institution and gets to what marriage is teaching in the ceremony of the church and the church’s stewardship of marriage.”

-R. Albert Mohler Jr, president, Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, http://www.albertmohler.com/2011/10/07/should-pastors-perform-marriages-for-cohabitating-couples/

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